Hello, I'm Nikka — a certified Somatic Sexologist and your Pleasure Fairy.
I specialize in the intersections of nervous system resiliency, embodiment, and pelvic empowerment. I'm passionate about helping people step out of survival mode, rewire their pain stories, and embark on personal pleasure journeys. The majority of the clients I see are neurodivergent women, who carry histories of childhood, sexual, or pelvic trauma, and are now navigating nervous system-related hormonal, menstrual, pelvic, and sexual symptoms. My intention is to offer accessible tools
that gently support your body in restoring embodied safety.
Formal Education & Training
BA Psychology | Concentration: Somatic Psychology | Naropa University
Science of Pleasure | 75 Hours | Dr. Isabela Bottura, OB-GYN
Trauma-Informed, Compassion-Focused Care | 100 Hours | Nikki Heyder, LPC
Pain Reprocessing Therapy (PRT) | 60 Hours | Lin Health Medical Group
Trauma-Informed Yoga for Mental Health | 30 Hours | Nikki Heyder, LPC
Tantric Hatha and Vinyasa Yoga | 200 Hours | Euphoric Yoga
Kundalini Embodiment and Energy-Work | 150 Hours | Ella Tsang
Why study sexuality?
The naked body reveals every tender, unfiltered truth.
When we learn to mindfully meet those most vulnerable parts,
— with curiosity, attunement, and compassion —
then, in the edges of vulnerability, intimacy illuminates
who we are being in the rest of our lives.
Through presence, sex mirrors life
— showing how safe we feel existing,
how fully we inhabit our bodies,
how deeply we trust our voices,
and how much permission we give ourselves to take up pleasurable space… authentically and unapologetically.
When we study conscious sexuality, we ultimately,
radiate more of ourselves in the rest of our lives.
Here’s the Secret…
Sex is a reconnection with our humanity,
A remembrance that the world we inhabit
can be rooted in safety, joy, connection, and love.
Choosing to see sex as sacred is a restoration to seeing life, and the value of a human life, as sacred.
Prioritizing sovereign sexuality — and the embodied safety it’s built on —
is the gateway to our collective healing.
