Hi Love, Iβm Nikka
Somatic Sexologist, Erotic Activist & Your Pleasure Fairy
So, Why Explore Sexuality?
Your body tells the stories your mind tries to silence. When youβre stripped bare β no masks, no distractions β thereβs nowhere to hide. The body reveals the tender, unfiltered truth. In that rawness, intimacy illuminates who you are being in this season of your life.
Are you rushing through life β stressed, disconnected, rigid, anxious, avoidant, or numb? Or are you slowly learning to access your softness, your joy, your vibrancy, your voice, your range, your love, your power?
Through presence & awareness, sex becomes a mirror. It shows how fully you inhabit your body, how deeply you trust your own vitality, & how much permission you give yourself to take up space⦠authentically & unapologetically.
Hereβs the Secretβ¦
Prioritizing sovereign sexuality β & the embodied safety itβs built on β are often the gateway to unlocking your sparkle. Sex is a reclamation of life force. A reconnection with your humanness, A remembering that the world you inhabit can be rooted in safety, joy, & love.
Welcome Sunshine. Here begins a gentle unraveling into your next pussy-led glow up
Iβm here to serve as your Pleasure Fairy To witness you, to guide you, & to celebrate you as you journey deeper into the wonderland of your own bodyβs mysteriesβ¦
I weave togetherβ¦ trauma-literate somatic psychology, health-informed sex education, & tantric mindfulness rituals β crafting an integrative & embodied approach for nervous system healing & sexual liberation.
Frameworks Interwoven Into Your Transformative Experience Includeβ¦
Trauma-Literate Somatic Psychology
Health-Informed Sex Education
Embodiment Therapy
Β· Nonjudgmental Presence Β· Loving Awareness Β· Compassion Β· Β· Nervous System Literacy Β· Parts Work & Re-Parenting Β· Attunement Β· Β· Secure Attachment Β· Authenticity Β· Boundaries Β· Resiliency Β· Acceptance Β·
Β· AFAB Reproductive Anatomy & Physiology Β· Holistic Hormone Wellness Β· Β· Menstrual Cycle Awareness & Health Β· Cyclical Living Β· Contraception Β· Β· Embodied Consent Β· Desire Β· Arousal Β· Pleasure Β· Orgasmic Capacity Β·
Β· Mindfulness Practices Β· Mind-Body-Breath Connection Β· Meditation Β· Β· Somatic Experiencing Β· Breathwork Β· Conscious Movement Β· Yoga Β· Β· Somatic Release Β· Thoughtful Touch Β· Tantra Β· De-Armoring Β· Kundalini Β·
Take a deep breath, you scrumptious creatureβ¦ Now, letβs tune into how these containers actually FEEL. As you read each part, notice the pulse of that energy filling your body with embodied power. Start sensing into your next evolution.
Raw: This work lives at the edges of intimacy, where sensitive topics naturally surface β inner child healing, intergenerational trauma, depression, sexual assault, abortion, & more. These spaces are a permission slip for your authentic, unfiltered expression. We welcome the luscious aliveness of emotion β from rage & grief to ecstatic pleasure β honoring the vast spectrum of what it means to be human. We create brave, vulnerable spaces to explore challenging memories, feel their emotional weight, & gently guide the body through the echoes of complex life events. With mindfulness, nuance, & integrity, we meet the taboo edges of the human experience through empowered, compassionate presence. These containers hold your depth, offering you the safety to be truly witnessed in your tenderness.
These containers areβ¦
Romanticβ¦ As your guide, I hold deep reverence for the tantric yoga path β a lineage that honors life itself & the vessel of the body as sacred. Through embodied safety & erotic aliveness, tantric practice invites us into an intimate relationship with life. Conscious breath, sound, movement, & touch rituals awaken bolder expression & radiant vitality. This is a path of softening into the present, feeling the fullness of the experience, & recognizing the collaborative artistry of reality. Here, we honor intuitive, cyclical, body-based wisdom as valid & de-colonialized knowledge. Healing here sparkles with Pleasure Fairy playfulness & joy, returning you to the poetic, sensual nature of your being.
Political. Womb-bodied humans investing in their sexual freedom is a radical act of self-empowerment. These are intersectional feminist sanctuaries β pro-choice, pleasure-centered, queer-inclusive, consent-forward, & fiercely devoted to medically-accurate, stigma-free sex education. The curriculum is rooted in bodily autonomy, reproductive justice, & accessibility. This community unequivocally stands for diversity, equity, & inclusion, actively acknowledging how systems of oppression like patriarchy, white supremacy, ableism, & heteronormativity shape our embodied reality. In a world that has long profited from our silence, pain, & disconnection, Collective sexual liberation is a peaceful act of embodied resistance & power reclamation.
Grounded:
Grounded in cutting edge science⦠blending research from the last 50 years in somatic psychology on how the body stores trauma with evidence-based sexual health insights into AFAB pleasure
Grounded in the body⦠through trauma-informed care, embodied experience, & the reclamation of felt, intuitive wisdom
Grounded in lineage⦠integrating & honoring ancient meditative technologies rooted in tantric traditions across Asia & the Middle East
Formal Training
Given the sensitive & intimate nature of sexology,
I value upholding ethical conduct standards,
centering facilitator safety, transparency, & accountability.
This is imperative for protecting the bodies in the containers
& maintaining the integrity of these vulnerable & raw spaces.
But, the emergent nature of this field means it is largely unregulated. For this reason, below, youβll find a clear outline of my Formal Training.
This section includes degrees, official certifications, & mentors.
Additional courses are not listed.
Mindfulness Psychology
BA Somatic Psychology
- Naropa UniversityCompassion-Led Trauma-Informed Coach - Somatic Psychotherapist Nikki Heyder
Sex Education
Health-Informed Sex Expert - Dr. (OBGYN) Isabela Bottura
Abortion Doula - Colorado Doula Project
Somatic Therapy
Tantric Hatha & Vinyasa Yoga Instructor - Euphoric Yoga, Mexico
Yoga for Mental Health - Somatic Psychotherapist Nikki Heyder
Kundalini Activation Facilitator - Ella Tsang
Hey - You delicious human, If youβre curiously wondering how I got into this work, Iβve dropped the story belowβ¦
Iβve always been captivated by reproductive justice. As a kid, I dreamed of becoming an OBGYN, a midwife, a sex therapist, an endometriosis researcher β even the director of a reproductive health center. But none of the traditional paths in sexual health ever felt quite right. It wasnβt until years later, through my own reclamation, that I found tantra β¦
At 19, after experiencing several instances of back-to-back body-based trauma, I was diagnosed with Complex PTSD. I was depressed, having panic attacks, & lacked tools to cope. When my therapist warned I was becoming suicidal, I made a vow: to build a life rooted in joy. The first step? A tantra training.
The immersion cracked my heart open. The somatic therapy & embodiment practices rewired my nervous system in ways talk therapy alone never could. I finally started to feel safe in my body again. This work can, & does, save lives.
Over the next 4 years, I solo traveled to 17 countries, living in places like Mexico, India, & Thailand. I learned from indigenous lands, collectivist cultures, & ancient philosophies. I was shaped by the purity of joy in developing countries & the undeniable oneness of the human experience. I also witnessed the devastating impacts of colonialism, poverty, & other systems intrenched in toxic masculinity playing out on a global scale.
Iβve lived it. Sexual assault. Domestic violence. Disordered eating. Mental health struggles. Chronic pain. PMDD. Iβve wrestled with my queerness, my Judaism, my neurodivergence, my US passport, & my Soviet heritage. And still β Iβm just a girl, navigating a world that was never built for my body.
I share the knowledge, tools, & practices that have helped me reclaim my power inside these systems. Iβve witnessed the same unraveling in my clients as theyβve returned to the vibrant wisdom of their own bodies. To me, sexology is about safety, joy, & sovereignty. We were never meant to hold the pain alone. Love, Iβm honored to serve as your Pleasure Fairy β t0 walk this path with you.
I also believe that with work this deep, finding a facilitator who resonates, & that you can trust, is super important! Iβm human β imperfect. Here are some sides of myself that people who really know me seeβ¦
Frolicking Fairy
I see learning as a lifelong adventure β & travel as the most embodied expression of that principle. Immersed in new landscapes, cultures, & community, I love how traveling challenges me to integrate different versions of βrealityβ into my awareness. With 40 countries woven into my story, I carry a deep reverence
for the wisdom of a global lens β one that is rooted in justice, equity, & collective liberation.
Gentle River Warrior
At heart, Iβm a lover-girly. I care deeply & boldly. Physical touch, nonverbal communication, embodied connection, & emotional depth light me up. Iβm deeply sensitive, wildly empathetic, & shamelessly squishy when I feel safe. If you catch me meowing around you, take it as a compliment β thatβs my body saying, I trust you. This part of me is extremely loyal & shows up fiercely for the ones I love.
Challenger
I was raised in Silicon Valley & inherited an ambitious, hardworking, & devoted entrepreneurial spirit. With a Capricorn Sun & Scorpio Mars, Iβve become a woman fiercely committed to her mission β resilient, passionate, & unapologetically playing the long game. My neuro-divergence fuels a hyper-focus that channels vision & creativity into every layer of my work. As a Enneagram Type 8, I lead with confidence, strength, & unwavering purpose. My work is more than a job; it is impact-driven, service-oriented, & heart-led action.
Erotic Oracle
I imagine a world where sensuality, vibrancy, & devotion ripple through every breath. Life is a love affair β one that demands to be felt deeply, lived fully, & infused with ritual & life force. A dance of joy, passion, & unapologetic glow. I honor the art of returning to the bodyβs voice β a compass for pleasurable femme leadership & an embodied prayer for a world that reveres the feminine principle of life & Shakti.
My work is in devotion to the sacredness of life, to sovereignty & bodily autonomy, to the reclamation of pleasure as power. Welcome to our world β youβre safe here. Come follow along the journeyβ¦
Come play along on Instagram β @yourpleasurefairy
