This event is for people who:

• Are erotically curious

• Want to build embodied pleasure literacy

• Desire to expand capacity to hold heightened ecstatic states

• See pleasure as an unfolding process

• Care about ongoing consent & attunement

• Value self accountability & effective communication

• Can receive respectful rejection without defensiveness

• Are capable of tracking their own activation & asking for support when needed

• Hold feminist, queer-affirming values & care about collective safety

My primary intention is to hold a safe, intentional container for everyone present. This is a pleasure-positive, queer-affirming,
consent-forward space. We protect our community.

This event is not for people who:

• Feel sexually entitled to other people’s bodies

• Struggle to respect boundaries or hear “no”

• See pleasure as goal-oriented rather than relational

• Project sexual expectations onto others

• Cannot tolerate rejection or become defensive when boundaries are set

• Expect others to manage their emotions or triggers

• Hold judgmental, misogynistic, racist, transphobic, or conservative values that undermine bodily autonomy

We prioritize survivor-centered, community-based safety. We support radically believing survivors in these spaces, so if you demonstrate that you are an unsafe individual to have in the space - you will be immediately removed from the container without refund. Facilitators reserve the right to deny or revoke access to anyone who compromises the integrity of the container.

Guest lists will not be provided in advance. Please do not reach out inquiring if specific individuals will be in attendance. If you have a safety concern, please contact the organizer directly.

Singles & couples alike are welcome.

However, this is not a partnered event; it is specifically an open play space!

If attending with a partner, you are expected to enter as individuals, not as a unit.

You must both be:

• Comfortable with being paired with others for guided practices

• Open to collective play spaces

• Able to witness your partner engaging with others without possessiveness or control

• Capable of self resourcing if emotions or triggers arise

Thank you for helping us preserve a grounded, drama-minimal environment rooted in mutual respect.

This is a closed container. By registering, individuals are committing to attending the full event. Late arrival or early departure is not permitted to protect the integrity & safety of the experience.

Dinner will not be served.

Cacao will be served around 7:30 PM & is most potent on an empty stomach. For best experience:

• Eat lightly during the day

• Aim to finish your last meal by 5 PM

• Hydrate well throughout the day

A refreshments station will be available during the event. Light snack options, such as cheeses, fruits, & chocolate will be included. Non-alcoholic beverages will be served to sustain you throughout the evening.

Arrival

To arrive at the event, individuals will be taking the public bus
- so please arrive respectfully covered & with adequate layers to stay warm.

You will need to either have the RTD bus app downloaded,
ready to scan your ticket OR$2.75 in exact change to purchase a bus pass. The meeting spot will not have reception, so prepare this in advance.

After the bus, upon arrival at the house, you will need to present a screenshot of your ticket & a valid ID to enter the facility. Phones will be collected at this point for the duration of the event.

Facilitated Programming

Under your coat, wear an outfit that makes YOU FEEL safe, sensual, & embodied. The guided portion of the event will include several hours of somatic practices, so make sure that your outfit choice is also comfortable for movement, expression, & touch. This layer should have easy options for gradual undress.

Open Play

Underneath your sensual attire, the invitation is to have on something luxurious & spicy. Pick a lingerie set, tight spandex, or sexy underwear - this is a panties-on party, so your final layer should be something that you feel empowered & confident in!

What to Bring for Open Play

You are highly encouraged to pack a bag with any tools & toys that may enhance your personal pleasure experience! Examples may include (organized by play space):

• Tantric Playground: sensory stimulation items or massage support tools (like oils or sheets)

• Kink Kingdom: any BDSM toys you desire

• Nature Cabin: items to cultivate a romantic outdoor experience (like blankets)

• Decompression Corner: any emotional regulation support tools that your personal body may need

• Make sure you are well rested, as the evening will run late

• Hydrate throughout the day to prepare for the cacao. For maximum effect, eat lightly that day & (ideally) eat your last meal by 5 PM to give your body space to digest before the cacao at 7:30 PM.

• Refrain from consuming nuts day-of to avoid endangering our friends with allergies

• Reflect on or journal your personal intentions, boundaries, & desires for the event. Arrive feeling regulated & ready to soften into practice

• Make sure you can be a pleasant partner: shower, brush your teeth, put on deodorant, & check your hygiene before attending. Minimize use of perfumes & colognes as individuals can be sensitive to smells

• Pick outfits you feel sexy & empowered in to wear to the celebration. If you have questions, check the ‘What do I wear & bring’ FAQ.

• Pack a bag for the event that includes an ID, screenshotted proof of event registration, bus pass, a swim suit & towel (if you would like to use the sauna), & any open play items you desire to enhance your erotic experience.

If you arrive at the arrival meeting point & fail to bring an ID or valid ticket - you will be immediately turned away.

There is significant autonomy over the depth & direction you choose to take this evening. This is your body & your practice.

You choose your level of engagement.
You choose your partners.
You choose the types of play you participate in.
You choose how undressed you become during open play (so long as panties remain on).
You are invited to ask for & receive your desires.

Basically, your participation shapes your personal experience.

That being said, this event also includes thoughtful elements to increase beginner accessibility, such as:

• Gradual, facilitated transitions into open play

• A clear panties-on framework

• A range of sensual & connection-based play stations, offering multiple ways to engage without pressure

• Decompression station for re-grounding

If you are sex-positive, curious, & open-minded, this space could be a great fit for you!

While this event is beginner-friendly, it is still a play party.

You will be encouraged to participate in facilitated programming,
& attending open play does require the ability to:

• Self-regulate

• Communicate clearly

• Practice attunement to yourself & others

These skills are essential to maintaining safety, consent,
& care within the container.

With that being said, our team is prioritizing accessibility for our sex-positive, beginner friends. We know the container can feel intimidating as a concept—but in practice, it tends to melt quickly into safe, lovey, soft, squishy vibes.

So if that’s you—curious, nervous, excited, or all of the above—this is a very gentle place to land, and we warmly encourage you to apply.

All practices are done on an opt-in basis. Individuals always have the following options:

• To opt-out of a specific practice

• To chose to do a practice individually, rather than with a partner

• To stop mid-practice

• To opt-out of partnering with an individual

You are invited to trust the information your body is communicating with you & respond appropriately. This is your body & your practice.

Substance Policy

To protect the safety and integrity of the container, please arrive and remain sober for the duration of the event.

This includes abstaining from alcohol, cannabis, psychedelics, ketamine, cocaine, or any other recreational substances prior to and during the event. Please do not consume anything that could impair your ability to fully consent or remain present and regulated.

Why this policy exists:

• Consent requires clarity. Individuals who are inebriated are unable to reliably give or receive consent, which compromises collective safety.

• The event includes several hours of advanced somatic, erotic, and energetic practices that naturally create heightened states of activation. These practices alone can feel euphoric or ‘altered,’ especially for beginners.

• Ceremonial-grade cacao infused with blue lotus will be served early in the event. This heart-and-sacral-opening plant medicine will further enhance sensation and emotional openness.

• Additional substances (including cannabis or psychedelics) can significantly amplify the effects of the facilitated practices, therefore increasing the risk of overwhelm or nervous system dysregulation.

• While the event is supported by trauma- and somatically-informed staff, we are not providing psychedelic or substance support.

For these reasons, we ask all participants to remain sober so everyone—especially those newer to this work—can stay within their window of tolerance and experience the event safely.

The practices themselves, combined with the ceremonial beverage, are intentionally designed to offer rich, euphoric, and expansive experiences without compromising safety. Please honor this boundary.

If a participant is noticeably inebriated at any point, they will be asked to leave the event at their own expense and without refund.

Medical Exceptions

This policy applies to recreational substance use only.

If you take pharmaceutical or plant-based medicines for medical or therapeutic purposes (including prescribed medications or medical cannabis), please do not alter your regimen for the event.

We simply ask that you hold a personal honor code around the distinction between medicinal support and recreational use within, and prior to, the container. This policy exists to support accessibility, inclusion, and safety, particularly for community members with disabilities or ongoing health needs.